“Why are you downcast, O my soul?”
What a question! And if were we to answer it, what would we
say? This reason, that reason? And if we listed reasons, how real would they
be? How fair? How balanced? How reflective of real life would they be? This
might be a useful exercise – if you are feeling down, write down the reasons
why this might be so. Then look at each one and ask, “Is this really the case?”
Then look at the good things in your life. This may not necessarily change your
mood. You may still feel down in spite of focussing of the positive. But it
will at least prove to you that good is there.
It will help your mind to refocus, even if it doesn’t necessarily
translate into your emotions straight away.
Another possible answer to the question is, “I don’t know”.
I don’t know why I’m feeling miserable! I can see the good things and be
focussed on them but I feel down in spite of it. We all have times like that,
but if it is persistent, then a trip to the doctor to get checked for
depression (or not) would be a good way to go.
Whatever reason or lack of reason you come up with, this is
important to note: is this constant and
long-term or is it just a one-off and occasional thing? If it’s only
occasional, they maybe just write it off as a bad day and don’t attribute too
much significance to it. If it’s always there and has been for a while, seek
help.
If you are a Christian, put your hope in God and keep
praising Him. Read Psalm 42 and 43. The writer is having an awful time but
chooses to stick with God. Not due to “blind faith” but because he has known
God’s favour in the past. He feels God has forgotten him now but remembers how
it used to be and this gives him hope. Whether you are a Christian or not, in
the midst of trouble you can look back at good times and recognise that the bad
times could be temporary.
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